Apparently, this is becoming my source for help. I really like that people comment from all different age groups and I feel like everyone is pretty honest. Once again, I am in need of a favor. (If you have been reading my blog lately, I think you can understand what I was talking about regarding decision making.)
My wedding is on a Friday night. I know, sorta strange, I booked it 1 year and 3 weeks before the event and all Saturdays were already gone. Anyway, I am having trouble figuring out what to do about the rehearsal dinner. I have a very large family that normally participates in ALL the wedding activities. I cannot figure out if I should make everyone (wedding party/entire family) come down to Austin on Thursday for a big, nice rehearsal dinner. Or if I should only have the wedding party come and have a more intimate dinner. I don't want to pressure any of my family to come on Thursday if it wouldn't work out of them. Most people have kids in school and jobs that I hate to have them take off Thursday and Friday of work. Everyone will be coming from out of town.
I also wanted to pick your brains about Saturday morning. Should I try and arrange a brunch somewhere, this could even be at Marc's house? I feel bad that people are driving in from all over and I won't get to spend much time with everyone. Is this normal? Will most people understand that I will be busy and not expect a lot of time with us? What do you think about a small brunch on Saturday? Married people, how did you feel the next morning? Where you worn out and tired? I don't want to make myself sick just making sure everyone else is happy and having a good time.
Let me know know what guys think? Any comments would be greatly appreciated!
9 months ago
One thing I am hoping for is a snapshot of all my Children&their spouses,Grandchildren& their spouses and the beautiful Greatgrand child. Not your problem with all you have to cope with at your special time, just wanted to throw that out so it will not be a surprise to everyone when I try to make it happen.
ReplyDeleteYou already answered your own question. Family and friends might run into difficulty pulling kids out of school and missing work. It wouldn't end the world if you planned something small on Thursday night; however, be prepared for some people to be unable to attend.
ReplyDeleteHaving been married 8 years, if I was in your situation, I would love to have a day AFTER even the wedding! After the stress and flowers and dress and butterflies and THE KISS! :)
What I would give to have spent time AFTER the wedding when I wasn't stressed and nervous. One uncle died 2 years ago and one uncle had a stroke last night. Take the time to enjoy your family.
Either way, enjoy your day!
Amanda